Figure 3.9 · Applied Exercise
CNM Structures in Practice
Six structures sit under one umbrella term. This exercise works through what separates them clinically.
Before you begin
Consensual non-monogamy is an umbrella term encompassing a range of relational structures. These structures differ from each other in important ways, and the clinical assumption that all CNM is alike is comparable to the assumption that all monogamous relationships are alike. It misses the specific dynamics, challenges and strengths of each particular structure.
One matching round, then three clinical scenarios. The complete figure appears at the end.
Estimated time to complete this exercise: 10 minutes
Part 1 of 4
Match each client’s description to the structure it describes.
Click a description to pick it up, then click the structure it belongs to. Click a filled row to send its description back. One submission.
References
- Conley, T. D., Ziegler, A., Moors, A. C., Matsick, J. L., & Valentine, B. (2013). A critical examination of popular assumptions about the benefits and outcomes of monogamous relationships. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 17(2), 124–141. https://doi.org/10.1177/1088868312467087
- Haupert, M. L., Gesselman, A. N., Moors, A. C., Fisher, H. E., & Garcia, J. R. (2017). Prevalence of experiences with consensual nonmonogamous relationships: Findings from two national samples of single Americans. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 43(5), 424–440. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X.2016.1178675
- Rubin, J. D., Moors, A. C., Matsick, J. L., Ziegler, A., & Conley, T. D. (2014). On the margins: Considering diversity among consensually non-monogamous relationships. Journal für Psychologie, 22(1), 19–37.