Paraphilias and Paraphilic Disorders · Clinical Exercise
Atypical Is Not Disordered
The operative criteria are consent, distress and impairment, never how unusual the interest is. Six disclosures routed through the consent framework, and the presentation where the distress criterion is satisfied and assigning a diagnosis on that basis would be the wrong thing to do.
What this exercise practises
Applying the three questions of the consent framework in order, recognising that half of these disclosures require no diagnosis and no treatment at all, and scrutinising distress about a historically pathologised interest before acting on it.
Two of the six engage obligations that vary by province, territory, profession and context. The time to know yours is before a disclosure, not during one.
Estimated time to complete this exercise: 30 minutes
Before you begin
How this one works
The operative criteria are consent, distress and impairment. Never the atypical nature of the interest itself. A person whose sexual interests are atypical, who is not distressed by them, and who does not act on them in ways that harm others does not have a disorder, and pathologising atypical interests that meet none of those conditions is a clinical error with a long history behind it.
References
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- Krueger, R. B., Reed, G. M., First, M. B., Marais, A., Kismodi, E., & Briken, P. (2017). Proposals for paraphilic disorders in the International Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems, Eleventh Revision (ICD-11). Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(5), 1529–1545. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-017-0944-2
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